don’t ask facebook, ask us! 

or a doctor.

(Source: trust, via catsaur)

there is none! cum is slang, derived from “come”, as in come to orgasm. the end.

that’s super shitty and i hope you’re not doing that. 

it’s only bad if it’s uncomfortable for you! to make your first time (being penetrated that is) less painful, i might suggest experimenting with yourself and using tampons. the main thing though, is that you’re comfortable. don’t do anything you don’t want to!

k

i would just send him a simple “hey, what’s up? haven’t heard from you in a while!” so as to let him know you’re interested without seeming needy or overbearing. if he responds, great! if not, it may not be phone problems keeping you apart.

LUBE. PLEASE. FOR THE SAKE OF EVERYONE INVOLVED.

also, you will not have penis-anus action the very first time. i’ve heard from many, many sources that you have to start small—think a finger. work your way up to the big guns, and always go slow and, like i said use lube. please.

well you should ask him! it could be as simple as he got gas or was tired or something. people may think they are in the mood and then they realize they aren’t. you should ask him about it, but don’t freak out too much, because it really does happen all the time and isn’t a big deal.

k

while virginity has some importance, it really isn’t that big of a deal. it’s not like he has some spiritual connection with his first. some people lose it with randoms, some with their spouse, some with their first boyfriend/girlfriend, some with a close friend, etc. it’s understandable that you may have reservations about it, as long as you are comfortable with him, nobody else matters. if it really bothers you that much, wait and find a guy who is a virgin, but that really shouldn’t take precedence over how much you like someone.

k

have you tried touching yourself? it is harder to achieve vaginal orgasms than clitoral. try masturbating alone and experiment with what feels good, and if you find something you like, stick with it! you may also have your boyfriend go down on you; a lot of women experience their first orgasm this way. 

k

you can’t “get” people to do anything. i am a firm believer that you should be honest and tell someone how you feel, even if you’re scared. nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? my boyfriend used to be my best friend, and when we started feeling feelings towards each other we just started hanging out alone more and more until finally he just kissed me. and it was great! even if he doesn’t feel the same way, you won’t lose him as a friend if he actually is a good guy. 

i believe in you!

k